Discovered probable porn addiction - now what?

[Heywyre]

You are absolutely right GEL - my H used to tell me all the time how disgusted he was about men he would hear about that had affairs and if it was a situation where they went to a prostitute - he didn't want anything to do with them, it disgusted him to the core.

And then what does he do? Has long-term affairs with two of them - go figure. AND, during both those times, he was lying right to my face that he "would never do such a thing to me" and "people like that are sick" etc. etc. Also, whenever he would hear about people that did that, he would make comments about how sick they were, or what low-lifes they were. All the time, he was exactly who he was talking about.

Sorry SP1 - but cheaters, regardless of PA or EA, are masters at lying. I would be thrilled if your H wasn't one of them, but I seriously have my doubts, especially with the drinking that is taking place also.

Have a good weekend, you definitely deserve it.