I am getting paranoid again. My W has been so nice, why can’t I just accept it. She called yesterday tell me she is going to be late coming home because her back was bothering her and she was going to the chiropractor. This is a total 180 from 2 months ago. She had the attitude like your W “I’m a grown up I’ll go where I want when I want”. I like the phone calls because I worry when she is late before not because of the OM but because I didn’t know if she was in an accident. Now when she called the little devil on my shoulder whispered in my ear “The OM is in town and she can’t wait for me to leave”. Now I don’t know this but this is what pops up in my head. But later that evening she was watching one of he soaps (she records them during the day and watches them at night) anyway I walked into the room and started talking to her. She was nice, answered my question and then stopped her soap and rewinds the part she missed. I told her “sorry for making you miss that” she said “no problem that’s ok” Now My W 2 months ago would have just stopped the recording and looked at me annoyed if I interrupted her viewing. And last but not least. We were talking about next week with me being gone. My youngest D 23y Lives with us. My wife said “Jessica wants me to go someplace overnight next week so she can have some friends over. I told her I can’t I have to work. (My W has no vacation time. If she is not there she is not paid). OK the little devil crawled out again and well you know. I thought is she making an excuse to be gone all night next week? My son and I will be calling every night so I will know if she is home. I have this feeling that it is over (at least for now) between he and the OM. But it’s so hard to trust her and not let my imagination take over.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
