The thing I cannot get my head round is how any man can put a child/his child through this, kick him out of his home and expect a normal relationship with that child as and when he feels like it. I know the kicking us out of the house, with-holding all money from us etc is all based at me, but surely he must know somewhere in his stupid mind that he is affecting his son.
(sigh)
sorry if this sounds mean.
But why in God's name are you still trying to grasp your head around anthing he does (sigh) sorry had to get it out.
I know we all find our ways of dealing with this.
I am not Snodderly, but she says that things will be revealed to you, and boy she is right.
Things gets revealed to us, but only when we allow ourselves to listen.
Mandy I remember you from long ago, when you H was going to get married, and how you sounded like you were in a frenzy about it.
But guess what mamma, you survived that. He went and got married, and here you, still doing very well, and being a great mom.
Do you see all the things that he can not take from you?
he can take a house, fine take , and choke on it.
You are so much BIGGER, that his mean ways, and selfish ways.
I read it and I have to think to myself, JESUS, aren't you married? to someone else, and you still feel the need to inflict pain on your EX?
I really want to say to you, you will survie THIS to, and when you survive this, you will add another badge of strength to your belt. And sooner or later, your belt is going to feel so heavy, b/c all those survivor, strenghth badges, are going to over flow.
Let go, and Let God. Sweetie, You will in your own time, but you will.
HUGS Mandy, focus on how wonderful you are,
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
