It makes you angry and hurts to the core. But, the only thing you can do is move forward and make a better life for yourself. The feelings of hurt and confusion will be with you for a long time Mandy...they still haunt me. But time is the only thing that will heal you. What all 3 of our ex's have done is despicable. This makes them despicable people. This helps me to deal with things better to remember this. I can dismiss him and not want him around on any level.
I have to remember this and move forward to a healthy place for me and my teens. They have been hurt too...but I try to help them deal with this and continue to provide a healthy environment for them. This in itself is a full-time job. LOL. If I am taking care of myself and my family...I don't have time to think about ex. I personally would sever all ties or contact with this man...w/o anger. You will be healthier emotionally w/o him. Your son's relationship with him is a different matter and I would seek professional counseling for you both in dealing with it.
I'm sorry for the hurt this has caused in your life. It is truly one of the most painful I have read about.
