Husband,

It's pissing down. Over 230mm of rain has fallen in the last 24 hours. Roads are closed due to flooding, emergency services are flat out (huge gale force winds, roofs being blown off etc).

I had six large boxes of household rubbish I was going to get rid of, put it on the front porch. This morning, all the boxes were gone (blown away). They were full boxes. Only some cardboard was left that remained from the boxes (wedged in the railing).

I took DD to see Shrek 3 tonight, and then we went to the Sushi Train for dinner (her choice would you believe). When we got home, she couldn't stop thanking me for a great time. I tucked her into her bed, and a few minutes ago when I went to grab something out of my bedroom, there she was, in my bed with her Shrek doll that I bought her after the movie.

I am taking DD and my sister to my mothers house for lunch tomorrow (my W still says that she loves my mother and misses her so much, but has not even spoken to her since Xmas, thats how much she loves her....)

My W is out tonight, she said she was going to dinner to catch up with a friend that had gotten back from a trip overseas. I don't really care too much what my W says she is doing, so I don't really know why she tells me. I prefer her not to say anything other than "i am going out".

Why do they continue to do this, even after the R with OM is revealed. Does it make them feel better. You don't have to be Sherlock Holmes to work out they are out with OM, so why bother trying to explain a lie to your spouse, just don't say anything.

She kept spewing about being a grown up and not having to tell me anything or anyone that she goes out with. So why is she still telling me?

Sorry for the vent, it is just annoying.

Anyway, W has not brought up anything about the RE agent that came over three days ago, no talk on the D papers she mentioned three days ago. I have been under the radar since last weekend, and will continue to keep myself busy.

Have a good trip Husband, wishing you all the best and keep up the good work buddy.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."