Mandy, I am not an "old timer" LOL I will give you my views on what I see. You and your EX weren't married, but just a long time live together couple who had a child. Your EX has been gone 2 years and got married to OW. He also is trying to put you and your son out of the house that you lived together in. Mandy, as I have told you before, it seems like this guy is the meanest I have read about. With that being said, I really feel the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on. I know its a hell of a lot easier said than done, but lets look at the situation; He wouldn't marry you, because he didn't believe in it or some crap like that. He was with OW for awhile before they got married. He is trying to put you and your child out of the house so he can sell it or live there himself. Mandy, I want to ask you this question. Why the hell would you want this loser back? I just don't think there is much to save here, someone else might have a different opinon here.