Hoo boy, lawless! Just caught up with your sitch, a little! You play the DB game well. No advice, except to not give an inch, unless it's beneficial to the children.
BTW, I also live in BC, and my twins are 20 yrs old (also b/g) - they are such a blessing, aren't they?!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim