Unbroken, I tried so hard at firt to get him back, I did all of the wrong things, crying, pleading, doormat, and trying to reason with him. We have been separate For several months he was coming home and staying the night with me several nights a month. He has mentioned D about 3 times, but has never filed. So I really don't know where this is going to go. Right now I am doing my best to act as if, going semi-dark. Only calling him when it is absolutely necessary.
Now having said that I often wonder if I could ever trust him not to do this again. I'm not saying I wouldn't give it a chance if there was hope, but I think he would have to show remorse which so far has not done.
This is the most difficult thing I have ever been through.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon