Hi penny, I have wondered if these affairs is a family history thing too b/c my H's dad did it all thru their marriage and I think his grandfather too?
C
Well, I can tell you about my mom's side but first let me say I have never cheated on my MLC H.
I could write a soap opera.
My mom's oldest brother was a priest and he was also married. Had A with one woman for awhile, took her to Hawaii, etc. He separated from his wife but they got back together. They moved to TX and then had more A's and finally went out with a woman his kids age and what did he do? He gave OW his kids inheritance money. Weird.
My mom's oldest sister.
Married to a wonderful guy BUT she had an A with a black man. Had child # 1 with her H then got pregnant twice with black man and had two girls. My uncle never said anything and raised those girls as if they were his own until the day he died. This aunt went on to have an A with a latin guy she brought to a cousin's wedding as well.
My mom's younger brother. Had a gorgeous wife and three kids. Met OW at the bank, had A, moved in with this OW, divorced his wife for OW. Week before wedding to OW, went back to first wife and said cheating on her was the worst mistake of his life and asked her to take him back!! Wife #1 said, you are sick, no way!! He married the OW, was unhappy but stayed married to her until he died.
As for H's side--I have no clue about any A's--best kept secret maybe.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
