Hi everyone, I'm new here, I'm usually over in Midlife Crisis. Quick re-cap, I was snooping and found out about H EA with OW, H left March '06, we have D10 together and have been married 4 years. After a few months, H said him leaving had nothing to do with OW, it was all my fault. November 2006, I asked H if he was in R with OW and he said he didn't know what was going on between them. I have not uttered the name of OW since then. Today I found an "i love you" note from OW in H's overnight bag (which was at the house because he was watching D10). I want to ask H for my own closure if he's in R with OW, if they are having sex and if they are living together. I think I just want to know for my own closure. We are meeting with L tomorrow to go over D details. Is it ok to ask H what is going on with him and OW?
