Unfortunately welcome H4WB. You are exactly where you need to be. Deep Breath! Feel better? Almost everyone here started right where you are now. My W said almost the same thing verbatim. As you search these boards, you will see that most WAS have the same script that they use. I'm new so I can't tell you if DBing works. I can tell you that following the path you are on defintely won't. Get DB and DR; search these boards for guidance, find people in similar sitch(s). You'll get the hang of it! If you need encouragement; your H is looking for a fix for him. His R with OW has nothing to do with you. Let it go! (easier said then done). DBing is about you and making yourself the kind of person only an idiot would leave. It is all counter-intuitive so don't be suprised if you say: huh?? after reading some of the posts. It will work for you. Maybe you won't get H back, but you will get you back. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
