First you can not tell your H not to see the OW. It has to be his decision. Begging him and telling him is just going go make it worse. As for your question does DBing work? Read some of the threads here. Some have worked great, some not so great. Everyone is different. I have found many good friends here. People I have never met and have spilled my guts out to them. They have told me things I didn't want to hear. They have given me hope. My sitch is kind of in limbo right now. I'm not sure what is going on. But I have come a long way. If you want advice we need more info. How long were you married? Do you have any kids?
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
