Nikki, I think you meant whatisis that recommended the book.

very glad you mentioned it whatisis. I may have to check out that book myself. Have you read For Women Only? Shaunti Feldham? If I remember right, it has the same kind of insights. Although after reading your last post, I guess you probably wouldn't read it since your a male! So how did you know about the other one? Or does it talk about both male and female views?

Shaunti Feldham also wrote "For Men Only". I've been meaning to get it, just to read and see how closely I relate. I'm sure it's extremely well written, because the other one was so insightful.

Whatisis, what would you recommend for us women to do instead of going to our man and saying, I need to talk about the R blah blah.... ?

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."