I'm new and just wondering if this DBing really works. I've been separated since February.
My husband is someone I don't recognize at all. He tells me he was miserable before the OW and that she has nothing to do with his wanting to be separated.
Everytime I see him, I can not seem to not push and plead to fix our marriage for the sake of our family. I'm surprised at my own resolve to fix things - I'm proud of myself that my marriage vows mean so much to me that I'd want to fix this awful situation.
Having said that, does the DBing really work? I basically have begged and pleaded for my husband to stop seeing OW and to fix this. He finally agreed today to go to MC, though the agenda was not stated. I think its a start. I just hope he'll actually go. He says it drives him crazy that I want to talk about things and I read DB over and over and know I shouldn't but hearing people say it really works will help.
