Well, maybe he will find the strength that you have found. I can sense that either way, you are going to come out with the best you possible. I have continually admired the way you take care of yourself and keep your head through all this. You remind me of where the focus should be...

Funny, how my H's main complaint was that I didn't hold him as my first priority, that I was selfish and oblivious to his feelings--and how it is hard for me to think of anything else, now! Was I ever that person?

Still searching, but now, more for balance...

You seem to have found some :0)