Thanks for the idea of ESL adult classes. I'm trying to stay away from doing anything regarding teaching in the summer but if I run out of other options, I'll look into that. It's a good idea. Just don't want to get burned out in the summers with teaching so I can start in fall fresh.
Regarding how he's treating me... it is to be seen yet. Yes, you could be right that some of it is out of fear. He still seems to have anger issues too so maybe he hasn't let go of the past yet either. I've only seen him twice in a month so time will tell.
I hear what you are saying about bruising his ego, but I was thinking of me and putting myself first. I turned him down when he asked me out because every time he asked me, it was for the day of or hour of and I had plans every time except the time when he asked me 2 days in advance, to which I said yes, but then I chickened out.
I did take the initiative yesterday to call him to tell him that I'd like to meet him half way on things and then he called me 3 times last night to see if we could get together. And we saw each other for a bit last night.
I actually felt like calling him tonight, and felt like "wish i could just call without feeling like it meant anything or would be read into, but just because that is what i do with my friends when i feel like talking to them" so maybe H and I aren't so far apart in our thinking of how we want this to be working right now anyway.
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