Well... another option is... when the man begins to 'drop hints,' and it isn't doing for you... crawl right up on him, pin his arms above his head, and give him the deepest, smokiest kiss you can pull out of your arsenal. Nibble on his neck... stroke, play, etc., etc. And take your doggone good ole time about it, too.
Then abrubtly roll back over, and say in your best, come and get it if you dare voice, "I suppose I could be persuaded to do all kinds of things if you did to me what I just did to you."
So... maybe instead of coming right out and SAYING what you want... take charge, show him, and then ask him to give it in return. He'll come up with his own version. You're not a man, afterall.
