Nikki, I just wanted to check back in with you. I skimmed your posts. Man it sounds like alot is going on, these folks sure give great advice. I haven't been on the boards very regularly, it seems like H is having a tough time "letting go". I think that this will definitely come. You seem to be doing fine, I could not make any suggestions better than already given. I have been thinking of you a lot lately. As for me, I am getting a bunch of conflicting signals from W, still. It is funny, she was talking about bff choosing others over spending time with her. It was all I could do to say "this seems awfully like what you are doing to me" but bit my tongue. Anyhow, keep it up!