I'm on my way to the gym now but it's been over 7 months and not only has my W not filed, she hasn't even talked about it.
I think whether they file or not has a lot to do with how much you exacerbate the situation. I'm not sure they're really wanting to file. I think they want to see if anything changes and keep an eye on it for a bit.
If you want to see how to get a spouse to file, go over to the MLC board and look up DadNotQuitting.
Sorry DNQ. I'm not going to say I told you so but...
OK, but mine's already filed, she did from day 1 and now it's like in slow motion??? That's what I don't get. If you're so fired up to get D'd, why not get it done? It's not like we have a lot to divide up or decide or anything???
If you're THAT pissed, wouldn't you just want it over with?
Then she tells me she wants it overwith and STILL nothing???
Seems odd...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...