I agree with that. It just doesn't make since in my book. I have seen enought while reading that this is normal alot of the time, but it doesn't mean I have to like it.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I'm on my way to the gym now but it's been over 7 months and not only has my W not filed, she hasn't even talked about it.
I think whether they file or not has a lot to do with how much you exacerbate the situation. I'm not sure they're really wanting to file. I think they want to see if anything changes and keep an eye on it for a bit.
If you want to see how to get a spouse to file, go over to the MLC board and look up DadNotQuitting.
Sorry DNQ. I'm not going to say I told you so but...
OK, but mine's already filed, she did from day 1 and now it's like in slow motion??? That's what I don't get. If you're so fired up to get D'd, why not get it done? It's not like we have a lot to divide up or decide or anything???
If you're THAT pissed, wouldn't you just want it over with?
Then she tells me she wants it overwith and STILL nothing???
Seems odd...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
I do agree with that. Remember that thread you sent the other day, it kind of follows that, just give them all the space in the world. I don't understand why or how that is suppose to help, but it seems to in alot of cases.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I do agree with that. Remember that thread you sent the other day, it kind of follows that, just give them all the space in the world. I don't understand why or how that is suppose to help, but it seems to in alot of cases.
I have been thinking of that guy a lot, but I think he had SOME contact with his W. I'll go re-read it...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Who knows JR? The point is, you don't care. No news is good news!
OK, but how long do you think we can last with NO contact? Doesn't that seem completely impossible to even dream of fixing things? I'm here ready for whatever, what is SHE doing? Anything? Does she even care? That's what I'd like to just get a tiny view of, just the tiniest sliver of that picture. How great would that be? That's the mind of the WAW that I'd like to see, what's going on in there. Anyway...
I guess I'm going to find out eh?
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
