I'm unclear as to why you are so against making the statement "I will not live in a sexless M." It's not like you even have to make that decision because MrsCac has decided on her own to address the issues.
I'm not "against" it...I'm just sayin'...for the sake of discussion..."speaking acedemically", on the sub-debate "boundary=condition". (I still say its the same thing!) anyway, "IWNLIASM" would not have been right for *me*. that's all. Might be perfect for some. can't make a threat like that without actually being able to back it up, and I wouldn't.
Originally Posted By: LustForLife
But what about those people on here that don't have a S that is willing to look at their own part in the sexless state of the M? Should they just be patient and hope for the best?
LOL! worked for me!!! lucky me!!
Originally Posted By: LustForLife
We've seen M go into decades of SSM. Seems to me the best progress has been made in confrontation, not just "being the best person you can be" and hope your S notices. LFL
maybe so. confrontation is just fine...threats on which you are not actually prepared to deliver is another thing, though.
