GO read the last few entries in Babybliss's thread about an encounter she's going to have with her H. There might be some things in there you can use.
You just have to act relaxed, even if you're not. Remember how free and easy it was to go out with your H when you were first married? Think and act like that even if your heart is jumping out of your chest while you're doing it. Things calm down once you're in the eye of the storm - you'll be fine
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
