Weirdness in the Hap household

[MJontheMend]

Here's my take on the matter. As a woman mostly what you are conditioned or biologically programmed to do in order to be "pursued" sexually is "make yourself attractive" and then "signal availability/arousal". Given that you are hot as h*ll so the first isn't an issue, the more assertively you want to be pursued, the more strongly you need to signal availability/arousal without actually making yourself available. Lying passively in bed does not signal availability, shaking your tail as you walk across the room does. I mean if you think about it, Sharon Stone in her famous scene really wasn't doing anything more than looking attractive and signaling availability. So I guess what I'm suggesting is if you feel like you need or want to be pursued in order to be aroused you can probably turn your own self on with a blatant "can't catch me" or "come and get it, baby". Just recognize that you are doing it for yourself and you won't feel burned if it doesn't work for him.