As usual, you sound really, really good Dana! Things seem to be in pretty good order for you.
Originally Posted By: galing
Although I love him, he doesn't really treat me in a way that makes me want to be around him more. I want him to treat me like someone really special and I feel like he makes little jabs at me here and there and isn't fulfilling any of my needs (acts of service, quality time doing fun things, words of affection). And the thing is... I don't take those anymore as "why doesn't he like me and care about me" but now as a reflection of him instead of a reflection of me and so they really put him in a bad light in my eyes.
Boy do I hear that loud and clear!
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In a way, me spending time with him may help me be pushed away from him while maybe bringing him closer, so maybe we'll be on a more level playing field regarding our feelings.
Not sure if anything that pushes either of you away is a good thing. And if he persists on seeing you...you may want to explain that to him. Tell him that you just don't see any changes from him and that you are afraid that seeing him may only push you further away right now.
