Momof2, that's a tough one, specially with the job market out there, but can he be moved to another office/location? how hard would it be for him to find another job.
mimi, was he always like this? would he yell at you constantly or only when he was really stressed?
Unless you want this to go on, you must stop it now. We decide to work on our M w/the hope that we won't continue the vicious circle we had before . It will happen if you allow it to happen. I used to raise my voice and talk really fast (it is my "yelling"), so now H tells me "you are yelling" when I do it, in the past he'd just get PO'd and argued back. We don't want more of the same, so if you see something you dont' like bring it up.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
