Don't be sorry. Your in a tough place right now. There were definitely times I was thinking. ug, I'm tired of trying so hard. A lot of this will subside when the confidence of the M builds. I don't feel like I'm trying so hard anymore now. Most of the time it seems easy, and occassionally...okay, maybe a lot, of the hard part is mostly from the kids, but I feel like him and I are in it together and we're more on the same page now.
And you don't suck at Rs...you just got your H back! That's a huge feat that not all of us can accomplish! It will take some learning on both of your parts, and unfortunately I think it will be harder for the LBS because we HAVE understanding, and the WAS doesn't. They never had to, except to figure themselves out. They didn't read the DB/DR books, so they may take longer in understanding the R part of it. does that make sense? So, we're kinda like waiting for them to catch up with us. We had to learn the "cram for a final the next day" way, so we just need to be patient, and continue to learn.
hey, and I didn't mean to say pay attention to what your showing him, you just worry about yourself (and dad) right now and continue to stay real with yourself. The rest will take care of itself, IMHO,
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
