Love the chatter, it is a nice break in the day for me. Let me chime in... My wife hated me calling her an adulter/infidel whatever word you want to use for what she is doing. Yes, I have heard it all. We never meant for this to happen. I feel like I have known him my entire life. And the one that I like best since they haven't had sex. We where so good, we never let it get that far. We put up barriers. You really put up barriers....
W just called to give me the run down on how she is helping me get our girls ready for the weekend. I thanked her and told her I appreciated the help with getting our girls ready. She also asked if I bought a fathers day gift for my dad. I told her that I have not and was planning on getting him something from our girls. She then said that she would not buy anything for him since she did not want to cross any boundaries with me. But she is going to buy something for my Grandpa from our girls. Strange, don't you think. She also said that she was in a BAD mood. Although the conversation was pleasant it sounded like she was not having fun.
FIB, I just bought the NUTS book. Looks like an easy read. I will start reading it this weekend.
Next, maybe in counseling Monday I can suggest that my W read the book When Love Dies. Maybe this will help her realize that she is not in a unique sitch and her thoughts are normal for a WAW.
