So last night before bed, my wife comes down to my room. And i ask her whats up. She says nothing. Then she says "i'm just a little weirded out by the therapy session today".
I replied "hmm, yeah i did not expect that".
She then said "its just that i feel like we took a step backwards, not in the direction I want to move in with this".
I said, "ok. well we have another session with him next week". I started to say "I think when parents come in saying they want the best for their kids, he feels obligated to tell them staying married is the best for the kids." I got about halfway through it, and she started saying something, so i shut up. I really had to bite my tongue not to say anything further, i felt i would just start a R talk.
Now this morning, she is acting slightly different. I'm not sure what it is yet. I just hope she isn't trying to "feel" something for me right now. In the session i was able to say that i don't feel our feelings for eachother just died one day, and that they decreased over time, so I don't think the feelings can just be turned back on like a switch, and that it would take time.
