No, I don't have a key logger but H is very computer savvy and would likey figure it out. He also has a lap top which I don't use.
I think I need to confront him and see what he says? The truth always comes out eventually, right?
He is definitately spiralling downwards with the drinking and increased porn. I pray he finds his bottom soon and gets help.
So what are your thoughts on the trip? I really want to cancel. I am so hurt and if he's in contact with w*res I won't be able to see straight.
Don't you think an Alanon meeting would be helpful. From what I've read a lot of men also have the porn addiciton in addition to the alcohol.
Ugh. I am at a loss for words right now. Thanks, SP
PS - Yes, he still sometimes approaches me for S. Not much though since he's either drinking or working. The porn goes on when I'm not at home or asleep and he's usually drinking during it. Lovely.
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
