I know that I need to let him go through this. It is very scary. He is going to the C now. From the sounds of it he wants to try but does not know how.
We have a meeting set up next tuesday with the C. He had already agreed to go to family therapy several weeks ago. He is seeing the same C now. I also suggested last night that we could talk to the C about our relationship when we go. He said yeah maybe. When he mentioned things he was concerned about not being able to get back with me I only replied maybe the C can help with that.
Is the Proper care and feeding of Hs a book or a thread? I am also in the middle of reading His Needs Her Needs. I know I did push him to the end of the line. And I think that is part of our problem. I am showing him now that I am changing that. Even our conversations are different because of this realization I made about me.
How long did it take for your h to feel comfortable again?
I am sorry about all of the questions. Things just kind of went crazy this week with all of the new outcomes in this. I was not expecting it.
Mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007
