Cat, I agree with what you said. I want this to work and I will only begin to retrust when I see his committment to me and the family. He did tell me last night that he wants to be a good full time Dad (during the S he ignored the kids) but then he said first and foremost he wanted to be a GREAT full time husband. I told him I was very happy to hear that and I was looking forward to it.
I need to take baby steps. I don't feel comfortable with him coming home. I am not sure when the affair ended. I am not asking a lot of questions because I don't want to bombard him...that is where I have definitely changed...before all this I would ask the same question 1000x until I got the answer I wanted.
MIMI!!!! Great news!!!! Take it slow...one small piece of advice...reread DB about OW and A...make sure it is 100% over!!! I am really happy for you.... Are you nervous? I am...I just want to believe he will never do this again!
