That sounds like a very healthy way to look at it GEL. I'm getting there. But I never claimed to not be a PITA about this issue. At least I have insight into the fact that a large part of this is MY issue. My H could not be trying any harder than he is. I really feel that way. And yet, I still find something to complain about...not enough excitement/surprises, whatever. So I can work on my attitude more for sure. Thanks for that reminder. LFL
