hang in there catfan! sounds like maybe she's just feeling like things have moved too fast, and she wants to stop moving for a spell, and see how she's feeling? I'd say, let her feel comfortable in where you are now for a while, and dont push for a while. let her catch her breath?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
