SP1,

Oh Lord, not another one! Ok, what type of website are we talking about just out of curiosity...strictly porn or something like Adult Friend Finder? Either is a problem, but IMPO one can be more dangerous than the other as far as possible infidelity goes. BOTH are dangerous to the marriage though.

If he's on AFF (adult friend finder) that's a BAD thing...that is a site where people go to hook up sexually. They e-mail, they can webcam, they can find people in their local area, and it often leads to people hooking up physically...if he's got stuff that shows this site, there's a VERY good chance he's got a profile on it.

Do you have a keylogger installed on your computer? If you don't...time to get one, if only to find out the extent of what you are dealing with so you know. It's been my experience that if he's viewing porn and hiding it from you that he definitely has a secret e-mail account...using a keylogger will give you all the info you need to get access to that account. If he's accessing something like AFF as well...you will get the info you need to get into that account too, to see what he's been up to.

I used this with my H and found out ALL sorts of stuff!

Please feel free to e-mail me if you need any support one-on-one anitam@nordam.com. Let me ask you this...is he approaching you at all sexually, or are you being ignored in favor of the porn?


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!