It was hard for me to read your post tonight because my sister is putting my brother in law through something similar.
Work on having NO EXPECTATIONS.
Stop asking for hugs or anything else.
The quicker you back off from appearing needy, the quicker you can start detaching.
This is no cakewalk.
But it CAN be done.
AmyC
what is up with your sister??? She has asked me not to talk about it here so I have to respect that. But think about it: would I have written anything on this board that didn't pertain in one way or other to the subject matter?
And NM, you WILL do it. Just don't give up on the work.
