AC wrote: "Having said that, we did have a "who are you/what do you want" kind of conversation about 3 weeks ago. Her replies went something like this: "I'm the most uninteresting person I know", "there's just nothing about me", "my life is nothing but kids and work", and so on, and so on.
Depression, anyone?"
Her last comment was NOT hooey, and it wasn't just about the kiss.
Her other comments in the quote indicate a number of things. Here are a few.
- She is not fully committed to the relationship.
- She believes that she does more than you and is unappreciated (usually an inaccurate perception).
- She still spends time thinking about a previous relationship(s).
- Rather than directly addressing her desires and needs in relation to the relationship, she is "floating" along, making no decisions, waiting for what she knows will happen, but will likely never admit to, and that is for her love to die off. Once that happens, she will leave the relationship mostly guilt free.
I think you should have called "BS" on that conversation.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
