My H left for 8 mths, almost filed for D and had an A. The responces I got to my very first post in piecing kept me afloat, read on:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...true#Post742126

to one of my last threads with more info and great TL advice:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...true#Post838788

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.