What the heck is that? A bird call? oh, a wrong answer, got it. But again, you are seeing it from a MALE perspective. The act will never be as sexually exciting if you have to spell out to a man what steps to take. This is whether or not you are about to have sex or not. I'm not asking H to mind-read. I'm asking him to come up with some of his own tactics and at least be willing to try them out on me without getting my "approval" first. LFL
