Originally Posted By: AmbientCoast
When it comes to intimacy, she truly doesn't want it - nor does she want me to 'pursue' her.


Jeez. Or maybe she does?

She's got the cajones to end the relationship anytime she wants - as she's already proven. Why would she continue to stick it out if she doesn't want it? Why would she continue to snuggle up to me in bed, kiss me on the lips, book us on vacations, blah, blah, blah.

Is she testing me? How much initiative does she want me to show. Or, rather, how forceful does she want me to be?

Is this normal? Am I missing something here? Have I just lived a really, really, sheltered life up until now, or something.