LFL wrote: " If women have to make obvious our intentions, than we lose a big part of the act itself I say. Anyone can say "ok, let's have sex." It's too mechanical that way and just not a turn on (as much)."
Annnk. Hap needs to tell him what she expects from him sexually, but she needs to do it when they are NOT about to have sex. If that is a passionate chase, then she needs to be willing to tell him that is what she wants. She needs to be candid about her sexuality rather than expecting him to "just know". He doesn't know and is unlikely to figure it out on his own.
I wasn't talking about "let's go mess around", but even that is just as passionate for the couple experienced in understanding each others needs.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
