Thanks, Heyw & Eddie for your quick replies.

I haven't questioned him yet as to the details. He was going into work last night so I told him I knew about the sites and the e-mail account and we needed to talk.

I am worried that he might be contacting these people online. I have no idea. He has done the viewing stuff before but if it's interactive I won't put up with that. How do I approach this?

I'm getting used to this newer version of the board, so please bear with me.

I printed out a bunch of the sites. The sites seemed to have ads for the Adult Friend Finder on them. Is that normal that porn sites would have links to those interactive sites?

Our SL has gone downhill with his added drinking, working, and now the porn. At times it seems too much for me to handle.

Thanks for your support.


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