THe question is why some women are HD and other are not. Why are the HD women on here STILL HD? Supposedly relationship issues are the cause of becoming LD. But the HD women on here show that is NOT true. Most of them HAVE BIG TIME relationship issues and yet they still are HD. To me what this really means is that the chemicals of desire are still there. These women have a HUGE head start on other women. But going beyond that, most therapists to one degree or another, recommend actions that will CHANGE the chemical makeup of the women. Some recommend workouts (to boost testosterone). Others recommend almost daily sex for a long time (this again changes the chemical makeup of the women by spurring chemicals that cause desire. Remember that women are the opposite of men, sex CAUSES desire for more sex).
This does not mean that relationship issues don't cause problems, but when it comes right down to it, he chemicals of desire just are not there for a whole lot of women.
