Fly solo.....be with myself for a bit, which is true. I finally feel like I have really hit my stride again. My legs are firmly underneath me, I know who I really am and just need to start re-developing those long-term goals for myself.
That sounds wonderful and that is where I wish to head. I got a ways to go yet.
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I let it slip to the X that I was actively seeing someone. I guess that is about when I started noticing alot of these changes
That is human nature for you. They think we will never move on. Now they want what they cannot have. It is fine to say you are not seeing anyone but the trick is not to imply that you are not b/c you want to get back together with her. If you beam confidence and living life without her that will cause attraction.
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I guess in a way I am really scared to put myself in that position again with her. Am I willing to try...sure. Would I take her back....yes, but in the right situation and terms. Slow, steady and with open communication.
Excellent. I have the same concerns as you. Would I try again? Today I would say no, but that is b/c I have been hurt and there is too much water under the bridge. There are 1,000s of beautiful women out there. That is our edge and our opportunity. And our fear?
