Are you asking how many WAS' we LBS' suspect or have or had an emotional or physical affair? I would guess the number to be fairly high, over 50%. Mainly I think emotional affairs more than anything.
As for my situation, I don't know what to think and know I can't let it control me in any way. I can't control what my wife does or does not do. I can only trust that she does the "right" thing. If having an EA/PA means she finds out our relationship and marriage are more important then who am I to argue with that? Sure it would be hard to deal with but then again the flip side is she would be and want to be with me in a loving, respectful and nuturing relationship.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
