DH had an affair 2 years ago, but she recently got married, so I know she's not in the picture. There was another girl at work (25/single/cute/drives a convertible) who he was flirting with (I found the IMs), but he said he put a stop to that right away. Then I made an @$$ out of myself by confronting her one night in front of TONS of people and although things are pretty sketchy, I do remember her telling me she didn't want my husband. I also remember telling her that her relationship with my husband was inappropriate. Her dad left her mom for a younger woman and I remember bringing that up, too... how would your mom feel? Did I mention this was in a HUGE group? Yeah, not one of my better moments.
So the short answer... I think I can say "not now"... but the stress over the A 2 years ago definitely took its toll.
