There are some positives in what you have posted - house, money, etc.
And I do think it is excellent that she sees the house clean and yeard ket up. You got to make the most of whatever opportunities you get, no matter how small.
I think you are doing very well in a tough sitch. Please keep a PMA, keep GALing and focusing on yourself. It's the best you can do no matter what happens.
Nomopo
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