Iknow it would bug him. I am shipping again tomorrow and it will bug him because I didn't answer his calls last Thursday and he ended up calling oldest S which was with me. I am thinking about going to my oldest S National Finals this Monday and Tuesday. It is 7 rs away so I am busy trying to get everything done so I can go. He seems to care what the boys are doing and ask if things are going OK. He is back to calling 4 times a day. He is listening to self help tapes. sometimes I don't think he even realizes how he is coming a cross when he talks to me. Right now he is real weird acting and isn't being very communicative.
I will give it a try and see what happens. I have done it before and he gets real defensive and tells me he doesn't care.