I confess that I do not know your whole story. But this is what happens in divorce. You have a choice to make. You can do what you have to do and get on with it. Or you can stay angry and bitter and allow it to hurt you and your children.
My ex eventually bought a house with OM. Yep, he came between us, but she let it happen. As one of my Cs said, he didn't make any vows to me. I certainly went through a bitter period. It is natural. But the first time I saw him after all of this, he put out his hand to shake and I shook. My children were there and I was not about to do anything to harm them or cause trouble as they would be living in the house with their mother. Your H has children. You are forever linked. He is on with his new life. Does that mean he forgets his children? I think not.
mandy, I do know it is tough. I have been there. But I also know that my ability to put it behind me benefits my children and their parents. And tha gives my children a better chance to be successful in their lives.
Sign the agreement or move. Get on with your life. You hurt yourself.
