Braveheart I agree, I dont think I have read anyone else's thread and thought that their mlc'er is worse than mine, I can honestly say hand on heart that this man is completely the opposite to the one I knew, the one I knew wouldn't have even dreamt about doing the things that he is doing. also I cannot believe that the solicitor that is sending all this paperwork as actually said that I owe him rent money and that I signed the tenancy agreement, I have never signed it and this is the sole reason I wouldn't sign it, but surely they must know I haven't signed it unless someone is forging my signature, I still have it here unsigned. I don't think this man is ever going to come out of this, it is two years and he is still dishing the dirty work out, why won't he crack and hit bottom, doesn't he see or doesn't he care that by doing this he is only pushing his son further away, the son that he told on his break away that he didn't know how much he loved him, he used to adore this kid, why oh why can't he bloody wake up and realise he is making it all much worse for himself. He is in love, he as got married, he is in a new life, why can't he leave us alone. that is the main reason I want out of here as when we are gone he will have to leave us alone, he chose his new life why doesn't he get on with it.