This post was a great inspiration. I had some new changes in my sitch last night. My h told me that he wants to come back but not sure if it can work out between us. He said that we grew so far apart that he is not sure it can come back. Based on what I have read in many books. I know that it can come back.
He does not want to come back and have it end up the same way as it was. I told him that I did not either.
He is going to see a C today by himself and then we are going on Tuesday together.
I think H and the OW broke it off last night. I really listened to him and tried to validate his feelings without telling him where I felt neglected. I feel that there will be another time for that.
I told him that if he needs a place to stay he could always stay at the house. I told him that he was paying for it and it was still his. I did not push him, I just made the offer. His comment back was that he would find a place to stay tonight. My guess is that he left the OW parents house and stayed at a hotel.
I am so unsure of where to go from here. Other than not to push him and be there for him.
Any other advise?
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007
